is a united malaysia a myth? (7) the disunity among malays

To a achieve a united malaysia, first the malays who are majority in this country have to be united... Ill give an example... A malay student from a chinese primary school cannot enter maktab rendah sains (residence school). When her mum went to ask the education ministry, they told her that malays from chinese school cannot enter these schools... These schools are opened to help malays, not some malays but all malays.. But why would they discrminate against their own people... Will studying in a chinese school make them less malay? Another example, my another malay friend didn't even apply for the matriculation programme, but in the end he got it... Guess how he got it... His dad knew someone in the upper level.... When you get something without even trying, then you will not appreciate it... So he drop out frm the programme after 1 week and went for private university.... Therefore, i think now malays are divided into 2 main branchs, the rich and influential and the opposite.. How can we malaysians be united if the malays aren't united at all